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Charity begins at home

1B9C1684-7C71-4979-8326-B37BF7452CBD.jpegAs far back as I can remember,the one prayer point I never fail to say each day is,…“Father Lord, bless me and bless the people around me. Also, bless me so that I can be a blessing to everyone around me”. I say this like an anthem, subconsciously.

I school in the University of Nigeria and every now and then, actually everyday, blind, deaf, dumb, epileptic, critically ill, basically people with different kinds of illnesses walk into our classrooms to solicit for financial aid. It isn’t uncommon to us. We have gotten accustomed to it.

For me, I’ve been on this campus since 2012 and I believe I’ve become familiar with a couple of faces.

Being on campus for this long, I’ve come across some of these people whom I’ve seen before, perhaps in 2015 and they come in and repeat the same stories, atimes with the same photographs (in cases like victims who were set ablaze). This made me wonder if they were making these stories up.

For some time I decided I wouldn’t help the familiar ones and other times I gave reluctantly. I was really skeptical about the whole situation.

Fast forward to a few months ago, I was in deep thought, wondering when God would bless me financially to be able to help others and then a thought was laid in my heart. “Everyday you have more than enough money in your purse to last you the whole day, that extra 500 or 1000naira can put a huge smile on someone’s face”.

It isn’t our duty to decipher if someone is telling us the truth or not. If you are in a position to help, give freely. Give with a cheerful heart.

You want 1 million? Who have you helped with the 1000 you have? Charity, they say, begins at home.

P.S. Home in this context means your immediate surrounding,

Love and light,

Pinkhy

 

The Art of Advertising

At the moment, my carry-on bag essentials can’t be complete without a pack of minimie chinchin.

Let’s rewind to the moment this love began…

Earlier this year when the Big brother Naija franchise aired, my friend and I constantly ridiculed the product minimie. Our conversations usually looked somewhat like this…photo_1535803309462-640x640-01Fastforward a few months later, I went shopping at a supermarket. While at the counter, I saw the minimie chinchin and decided to add a pack to my cart.

….And I guess that was the beginning of my love relationship with minimie chinchin.

The reality meets up to the ads. The reality is way better than the ads.1535896296886-01An average consumer usually knows what he or she wants but

●doesnt know where to find it

●wants a cheap commodity

●wants a product that lives up to expectation.

As a brand, if you’re able to identify these problems and find solutions to them, I guarantee you’ll be successful.

SOLUTIONS

Using minimie as an example,

I believe my love for minimie chinchin is still strong because it is literally everywhere.  That solves the first problem. They made their product ACCESSIBLE.

It comes in various sizes. I’m not sure but I’ve had two different sizes. There’s a pack that sells for 50naira and a snack jar that sells for 1600naira. This solves another problem. It is AFFORDABLE.

Advertising only works up until the first time the product is being consumed. If the product doesn’t meet up to the standard you’ve shown off in the adverts, most of your customers will be one-time customers. If the consumers like it on first-try, they’ll definitely come back for more. This is where ATTENTION comes to play.

Master the 3As of Advertising and your product will survive this country.

I hope you enjoyed this article.

Till next time,

Yours truly.

GET SMARTER: ENLIGHTENED SELFISHNESS

1508531885879if you truly loved yourself, you would never hurt another -Buddha

This is by far my favourite phrase, maybe only because it sounds creatively intellectual.

Enlightened selfishness is basically making people happy for you to be happier. Intellectually selfish. That’s how it works. Working for the greater good which leaves you feeling satisfied with yourself. Being truly happy and at peace with who you are so that in turn, your energy and vibe flows and affects anyone around you.

It is an attitude. No! It is “THE ATTITUDE”. Practice this and I guarantee you would be happy for a very long time. Make someone happy=you are happier=you make more people happy and the world is a happy place. Wouldn’t you want the universe to be a happy place?😉 You can’t offer anyone anything if you aren’t in full control of yourself (feelings and all)

Relating this to me, I take life a bit too serious. I rarely catch up with friends and I can’t remember the last time I spoilt myself. I was not as happy as I’d have loved to be which meant, if you met up with me, you probably won’t leave happier (maybe even sadder😓). So lately, I’ve been incorporating this attitude in my life and guess what? I’m a lot happier 😃now. Spiced up my life a bit, just a bit (old habits for hard😂) and indulged in those guilty pleasures I’ve been missing out.

Enlightened selfishness is also related to the golden rule: do unto others as you would have them do unto you. When you are happy with yourself, the person that you’re relating with tends to be happy too and this brings greater happiness. Happiness is contagious.

Show yourself some love, YOLO!!! Make this life your best. Just go with the flow. Do whatever makes you happy.

Let enlightened selfishness be your shmood😎 forever.

Do you think this is still low-key selfishness 😂?Let me know your opinions on this. Share in the comment section.

PINKHY 101

Hi…I’m Chidera Okoli but everyone calls me pinkhy ( emphasis on the ‘ h ‘ ), hence the title. I can’t categorize myself because I’m at the two extremes. I can be really quiet and really noisy.

I’m an organized freak. I’ll organize anything, from wardrobes to refrigerators. Organizing is my stress reliever😂. Weird right? I need help.

I start my day with hot tea🍵. Always! I’m not a foodie but I like having something that I can snack on. In the last five years, I’ve only gained 4kg.😩How crazy is that?

Bare – faced gang. I love makeup but I love my bare face better. Maybe just with a hint of lip gloss and tinted moisturizer 😎😎Snapchat-6050583949968746609.jpg

I’m a very good listener and my favourite song is open space by housefires.

I like to balter💃 every now and then and I always get butterflies in my stomach exactly a month to my birthday. Always!!

I started this blog to share my experiences, feelings, pictures and lots more. Hope you enjoyed this post. Follow and subscribe to stay tuned to my world❤❤